Tuesday, December 13, 2011

Commitment ?


“I don’t have any commitment to you”
One told to her boy friend while kissing him.
May feel awkward when one hear this. Coz we people, so narrow minded, can’t digest when a girl say this in such a situation.

But let’s take that in this way. What’s wrong in not feeling commitment to anybody in this world? Indeed what’s the point in having commitment to anybody? Relationships are always killing. Emotions, love, care….all feelings are just a kind of show off.  Who knows who plays the double role behind the curtain?

If we are not committed, we don’t have to worry about what’s happening in and around us. Am I right dear?

Tuesday, December 6, 2011

Anything can happen over a cup of coffee


During my each visit to Bangalore, we three, Nithya Shankar, Roopesh Ramakrishnan and me, usually meet at Café Coffee Day at J P Nagar. Anything can happen over a coffee; yes Café Coffee Day’s catchword is really perfect. There, we always talk on one subject which we all don’t want to implement! That’s marriage. Everybody want to know when the rest will retire from their bachelor’s /spinster’s life!!!  Everybody will pull other’s leg on the same  and will end up in laugh. Nithya always worried about her parents and grandparents pressure while Rupu is always worried about when to settle down to marry, and me not now and “expect the unexpected”.
We are together since 2006, immediately after our college days at AMC Bangalore, regular chats over net, hour long phone calls and meeting at regular intervals. Everywhere the topic never changed. "When is your marriage?" . What makes us discuss this topic more than anything else? Even though we are not interested to get married soon, we are interested to talk more on that topic, but just for fun.
We share our views and anxiety of being get married. How do we adjust with the coming partner? How can I change my attitude for that particular one…? Our talk goes on. Nithya’s parents already started searching for a partner for her. Every day they compel her to open the mail and check the new proposals from the parents of the boy or from the boy himself.  Rupu’s father has fixed a deadline for his wedding. But still I’m a free bird….till when? Hahahaha…..
Dear parents, please forgive us  for only talking, but not seriously.... :)